If you have found yourself feeling anxious during the past few weeks due to the coronavirus pandemic, you are not alone. Some of us are living in areas of the country that have been hit harder than others, and the uncertainty of what will come is extremely unsettling.
For most people, not knowing what will happen is an undesirable feeling that we are forced to confront right now. This, combined with the interruption to our daily routines and being housebound, can cause additional fear and panic in our lives, on top of the worry around the virus itself.
While there are certainly many ways to deal with this type of anxiety, an effective tool is to actually slow down, both mentally and physically, and focus on being present. Often times, our own racing thoughts can play a pivotal role in how we feel overall.
By learning to control your thoughts and slow them down, your mood and outlook can improve.
The Fight-or-Flight Response’s Relationship to Anxiety
You may be familiar with the term “fight or flight.” This is a term used to describe the body’s natural response to threats straight from our hunter-gatherer days.
When we feel a threat in our environment, the sympathetic nervous system releases hormones, like adrenaline and cortisol, that causes this instinctual response.
- Your autonomic nervous system causes a range of responses such as increased heart rate and increased blood flow throughout the body, causing you to breathe more rapidly and even sweat
- Your muscles may constrict or tremble
- Your hearing and eyesight actually improve and your pupils may dilate
- Your skin may become pale or flushed as your blood moves to the places you need it most like your muscles
All of this is your body’s way of helping you prepare to fight a battle with a Saber-toothed tiger or run away as fast as you can. The term ‘freeze’ is a sort of in-between stage between fight and flight, when your body is trying to figure out its next move. None of these responses are made consciously but happen instinctually to a physical threat.
Similarly, anxiety causes this same response, even when there is no physical threat. Anxiety is a particularly common response for people who have faced chronic stressors in their life or sudden trauma. In fact, But luckily, you can take back control of your body.
When a psychological threat occurs, you can practice mindfulness to stop the racing thoughts and the associated physiological responses.
Let’s learn the ways that you regain a sense of control with mindfulness.
How to Slow Down and Focus on the Present
While some people thrive on staying busy throughout the day to keep themselves going, others, especially during periods of anxiety, can benefit immensely from actually being unproductive and slowing themselves down. It’s okay to allow yourself some downtime, and many therapists consider this a vital part of self-care during a crisis.
We’ve included three ways to slow down your racing thoughts and reduce your anxiety below.
Mindfulness and meditation
Mindfulness is the idea of being in the present moment, and not thinking about the past or worrying about the future. It emphasizes a focus on the body, the breath, and “clearing out the clutter” from your mind.
Meditation is an excellent way to start practicing mindfulness. While there are many ways to accomplish this, an excellent way to start is the traditional method of sitting quietly, eyes closed, and focusing on your breath.
Regular meditation has an abundance of benefits, including:
- Reduced anxiety, stress and depression
- Promotes positive thinking and can reduce negative thought processes
- Promotes a healthy immune system
- Enhances self-awareness
To begin practicing meditation, try the following:
- Get into a comfortable position. You can lie down or sit up in a quiet place where you can turn off distractions. Some people find it helpful to play calming, instrumental music while they meditate.
- Begin by closing your eyes and taking in a few deep breaths. Try to get your breathing pattern to slow down by inhaling for 4 seconds through your nose, and then exhaling for 4 seconds through your mouth. Continue with this breathing pattern.
- Notice your thoughts and let them pass without judgment. Don’t fight them, just notice that they are there. Eventually, after regularly practicing meditation for some time, your brain will learn how to slow down, or even stop, these thoughts altogether.
Meditation can be difficult because we aren’t used to simply sitting and doing nothing. Start by meditating for 5 minutes a day, and slowly increase your time. There are people who actually meditate for hours at a time! (But don’t feel like you need to do this—10-20 minutes a day can be highly beneficial).
For guided meditations, there are many apps you can download on your phone, such as Calm and Headspace.
Oprah Winfrey and Deepak Chopra are also running a 21-day meditation experience for free to help people get through this time. You can also check out YouTube for both guided meditations and calming music you can play in the background.
Here’s a short discussion and guided meditation by Deepak Chopra to help get you started.
Other ways to practice mindfulness include:
- Coloring. Adult coloring books were invented for a reason!
- Knitting. Creating something new can help your mind focus and provide a sense of accomplishment.
- Play or sit with your pet. Pets provide companionship and are known to help reduce blood pressure and provide a sense of calm.
- Practice yoga. Yoga is a great way to practice mindfulness. By focusing on getting into positions correctly and holding them, the mind-body connection kicks into play. Your mind slows down and can help relieve anxiety and tension.
Don’t constantly read the news
It’s understandable to want to stay informed and on top of what’s happening in the world and in your community, and it’s important for knowing the latest precautions and regulations in your area. But obsessively checking news sources during this unprecedented time can just cause heightened anxiety.
Stick to checking the news 1-2 times daily, and make sure your news sources are trustworthy. There has been quite a bit of “fake news” surrounding coronavirus, and you want to stick to facts only.
To avoid reading the news altogether, you can even ask a friend or family member to provide you with important updates as they occur.
Control what you can
While you can’t control what is happening in the world around you or how long the pandemic will last, try focusing instead on what you can control in your immediate surroundings and throughout your day-to-day life to stay healthy.
- Washing your hands frequently
- Not touching your nose or face
- Avoid going out into crowds or taking unnecessary trips out of the house
- Wiping down surfaces in your home and anything you bring into your home from the outside
- Reminding yourself of what you can control can help reduce fear about what you cannot
If you are facing anxiety during this time, the thoughts of needing to be productive and busy are sure not going to help ease your internal pressure. Mindfulness techniques such as learning meditation for anxiety, not reading the news constantly and controlling the things you can help reduce tension and fear.
And remember, while this is surely an unsettling period in time, it is only temporary. You will get back to a normal day-to-day routine.
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